My girlfriend wont swallow
Healthy straight male here. She says she wants to get more comfortable and try these things. But they never seem to happen—and when I bring them up, it turns into a touchy discussion. She had an ex who refused to go down on her. I think she has a double standard.
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Some girls swallow on their first go around, and some are open to it after you express your desires to them, but after being with my new girl of 5mo. I go down on her plenty, and will continue to do so, but now I get the impression that she doesn't want to reciprocate to me the same way, to make me as happy as possible.
I feel somewhat rejected and I wan't to know if I am dumb for taking this personally, or do other people go through this as well? Should I just let this go? Yes, let it go.
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You can continue to talk to her about it and see if you can get her to give it a try, but don't pressure her and if she remains adamant then drop it. Once it leaves my dick, it's pretty much hers to do with as she pleases.
I also took it personally at one point, but you said the exact same thing as my gf did and hell, I warn her now before hand and I stick a towel over and that way things don't become messy and she doesn't have to deal with my jizz in her mouth. It's a win win situation really.
But I love going at it for ages lol. When you ask me out on a date, you'll get a damn good blowjob that same night. It may be that she has or has had a mild allergic reaction reaction to semen, maybe not yours. I had a former girlfiriend who loved swallowing but always got an awful upset stomach and would actually develop very minor rashes wherever my valiant seed would contact her skin; it was a mystery for both of us as I had never caused anything like that with any other lover and she had never experienced it with any other guybut chemically something about my cum was an irritant.
Honestly, some girls just don't like having semen a part of their diet.
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It's not with any disrespect to the guy or disgust, she probably just can't make herself go along with doing it. Honestly, when you think of the whole big scheme of life is your girlfriend not swallowing your come really the biggest problem. Is this the end of the world? Will life not go on. Whatever, just get over it and at most if it really starts to bother you stop giving her head and call it even.
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That's a bit mean, and I'm not the revenge type. I like her a lot, and I don't want this to manifest in other parts of our relationship, but if playing fire with fire works, then yeah sure.
I think you need to think of this in more general terms. There's something you want in your relationship and she doesn't want it. It probably isn't personal, some girls really just don't like it. However, it's completely reasonable for you to have specific sexual needs, and if she isn't meeting them, then maybe she isn't the right girl for you.
Or maybe she is, and this isn't that big a deal. We all have to make some sacrifices in the sexual preferences of our partners, but we have to decide which sacrifices those will be. I think the bit in your post to pay attention to would be "wants as little contact with it as possible.
Swallowing itself shouldn't be a test of loyalty or pleasing. And this isn't about you. Remember that, and I'm sure you can talk it out.
I think a lot of guys would take this personally because it's like it's "them" and why wouldn't a girl want "them. It gives me heartburn, funny as it is, so then I just tried spitting it out but that always made me gag.
I haven't swallowed for my new guy yet, but I'm very willing to at least try it once It is just how he is; I assume that's just how some guys are, perhaps you too. No real solution I can think of, you can't force her to do anything, it's such a passion killer.
I cant imagine being that guy who says, 'i want to break up because you don't swallow' im sure that will go over great with her friends. Yeah totally let this go, plus if you put pressure on someone to do something they don't want to do, you'll create a tension which takes its toll later on.
But a good suck job with swallow is a thing to be missed - I've always had success with just giving the girl what she wants - because a suck job here and there is nothing compared to the good times to be had by pleasuring her - she'll treat you like a king. When a girl swallows, you feel accepted. When a girl doesn't want to, you don't. That, I'd say, is what you're taking personally. Did you talk to her about this?
Also: spitting is wayyyyy more nasty than swallowing, because you can kindof let it shoot in the back of your throath and not even taste it. At least, that's what my GF does. Found the internet! New girlfriend won't swallow, not sure why I'm taking it personally. Posted by 10 years ago. Sort by: best. Reply Share. Continue this thread.
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